After a long day of ministry and my "love tank" running low, I walked outside to go to my vehicle on a Sunday evening. It was as if God had plastered across the sky, "DAUGHTER, REMEMBER: I LOVE YOU!!!!!" I caught myself smiling as I realized my Abba Father knew what my heart needed! It caused me to think about "love" and an admonition I'd heard earlier in the week to the effect of "QUIT WAITING TO BE LOVED; YOU ALREADY ARE!"

When my father passed away, I became keenly aware of the relationship that I no longer had on this earth. Grief became a recognizable companion in my life. As I began to explore the facets of grief, I realized I shared deep “daughter grief” with many women – even though their stories looked different from mine. Difficult, disconnected, or deserted relationships also carries grief of loss that lingers. In every form of father-loss, there is a deep joy in relationship with our

When Veteran’s Day is remembered each year, my thoughts naturally go to my own father who has moved to Heaven ahead of us.

Grief written in words offers release to our own souls and connection to strengthen others.

Grace to mourn the absence Of past gifts from His hand; Grace to grow strong in the Lord With faith and courage to stand. -jlw